relationships

OMG!! I wouldn't get into a relationship with a person who had a "private life"! Watch out for this guy!

I didn’t fully trust my boyfriend/fiancé; tho I had no evidence he was cheating, just a gut feeling that I couldn’t fully trust him (and your guy came out and SAID that he has a “private life” that he’s keeping from you). I’m happy I didn’t marry him (I was right). Nothing worse than those suspicions. They’ll drive you crazy & take the relationship down with it. Find someone you trust with your heart and your future security. You’re worth it and it’s worth the peace of mind.

no trust = no future. i'm a guy and got burned by somebody i "loved". i always thought something was up and sure enough i discovered the truth. my friends and even some of her friends were trying to tell me for years. i didn't listen and it cost me dearly.

no trust = no future. i'm a guy and got burned by somebody i "loved". i always thought something was up and sure enough i discovered the truth. my friends and even some of her friends were trying to tell me for years. i didn't listen and it cost me dearly.

So you're saying you're available now??

I am friendly with a few ex's, so is my hubby. BUT everything is very transparent, no late night communications, not secret lunches. Just friends.

I agree! Private life??? Partners get to have private, innocent thoughts and dreams and they get to go to the bathroom alone...there are no "private relationships" in a marriage..if a spouse can't call up the other spouses friends, those relationships have no place within the context of marriage.

If he's trying to make you feel guilty about trying to be part of his life then it would be stupid to marry him. Married people don't get to keep secrets from their partner. Private life is only private to those outside the marriage. The fact that you would still consider marrying him makes me think you are the "battered wife" type who sticks with her man no matter what he does. It's easier to stop now than to get out later.